Why do i attract needy men
Rori Raye * Blog
The Question:
Rori, I absolutely love your work! Thank you for sharing your heartaches and insight with all of us, to help us learn to halt settling for breadcrumbs.
I would love to have help with my dating existence. I&#;m divorced, 47, in excellent health and shape. I&#;m a successful Registered nurse at a Veterans health center.
Own my own abode, car etc. But seem to entice clingy needy men that want or need constant verification of my feelings for them, and in some way need to be fixed.
They seem to distrust me, and accuse me. I had a gentle relationship with a guy who would be upset that I was spending my &#;downtime&#; on my phone reading self help info, or just researching things. After I work 12 or more hours this was my way to vegetate.
The other type of dude I&#;ve attracted is completely emotionally unavailable. Sex only. No connection to the heart, although when he is with me, I could swear the stare of love is there. And then he runs away, I hear nothing for literally weeks.
He got to me, I know I handled it poorly as I poured out my sadness a
Why Women Are Not Attracted To Needy Men” | (#) The Masculine Psychology Podcast with David Tian
Welcome to the Masculine Psychology Podcast, where we react key questions in virtual dating, relationships, success, and fulfillment, and explore the psychology of masculinity. Now here’s your host, world-renowned therapist and life coach, David Tian.
David: Welcome back to the Masculine Psychology podcast. I’m David Tian, your host.
In this episode, I’ll be revealing why neediness is the most unattractive trait in a male, why women are turned off by needy men, why women feel neediness as the biggest turnoff in a man? This is such an crucial idea, such an significant concept, such an essential principle to grasp that I’ve made multiple episodes exploring why neediness is that important. It’s the one most important factor. []
In fact, it’s the one thing. If you just focus on this one thing and this one thing only, neediness, and eradicating it or overcoming it, and healing and growing from it, if you just focus on this one metric, this one thing,
Needy men are like vampires--and not the sexy kind.
Here's why:
Guys like this will suck every ounce of energy out of you, because they depend on you for everything.
-They depend on you for constant approval
-They depend on you for "ego-stroking" reassurance
-They even depend on you to make all the decisions in your relationship!
Ugh this sounds like the opposite of what women ACTUALLY want, doesn't it?
Well if you've been attracting energy vampires (AKA needy men) then you should know that there's a reason why.
I explain exactly what's going on in today's video: "3 Reasons Why You Only Draw Needy Men."
If you've been dealing with needy men and finding yourself carrying someone else's emotional baggage then it's time to nip that right in the bud.
Watch today's video to learn why needy men have been robbing you of your mojo and what you can do about it.
So grant me ask you, act you find that you only attract weak men? Leave a comment below.
Your Coach,
Adam
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Why Do I Attract Needy People? (And How to Deal With Them!)
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Have you ever been in a good mood, had a conversation with someone and afterward, felt completely drained of all your joy?
It’s like they just sucked the happiness right out of you by dumping all their emotional and toxic baggage on your mental plate.
These are what I call Needy People. These are the people that are always in need of your help, or need to talk to you about their dramatic life, etc. These people are takers and rarely, if ever, givers.
People like this are not necessarily intentionally needy, but they are people that are not living up to their fullest potential.
Needy people are the people who have not done the work of creating a vibrant, functional, self-sufficient life.
However, they are smart enough to know that you are someone that they can ‘depend on’ when they are in need.